How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 02:51
Hangs out with loser friends.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What’s the worst thing you caught anyone in your family doing?
Ask yourself:
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Why cant I stop thinking about counsellor between sessions?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What is it that gives a man who is a submissive cock sucker his most pleasure?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Does not procrastinate.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
What are the reasons why am I so tired before my period?
Procrastinates a lot.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How is bestiality wrong, but killing animals for sport or trophies is considered okay?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Making more friends is a goal.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What I need from you?
That's it for today.
Do people have to be a pastor to baptize?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.